Weddings at The Refuge

The Perfect Destination for a Wedding on Long Island

With numerous intimate spaces to host parties, The Refuge is unique that it can transform into any style for each event.

Engagement Party

Congratulations Your Engagement! Kick off the wedding celebration with a one of a kind venue! Get the festivities started on the right foot, we invite you to take a personal tour with our event professionals so you can choose your event space and customize menus.


Plan a beautiful day for the bride to be by hosting an intimate and celebratory brunch. Our versitile rooms can be the perfect backdrop that is classical, romantic, elegant, modern, or chic. Our Main Dining room offers a bright and colorful aethestic with menu options such as bloody mary and mimosa bar, omlette station, french toast and pancakes, assorted hotfoods and so much more to choose from. 

Rehearsal Dinner

Set the stage for your big day with an equally stunning rehearsal dinner. From a sit down dinner to a cocktail reception, there are endless amounts of ways to impress your guests before the wedding. Our event professionals can help you plan your menu and cocktails to simplify the evening. Opting for a menu that differs from your reception is a great idea for mixing it up and Refuge’s menus have a great variety of cuisine’s to choose from.  


Wedding Ceremony 

Your ceremony sets the tone for the rest of your big day. Its your chance to wow your guests with the unexpected and give a hint at what’s to follow

Wedding Reception 

Think about your wedding style, your guest list size, and the general mood you want to set. The Refuge is the perfect place for a rustic, large or small, romantic wedding venue

After Party


Any bride will tell you the reception flies by. The last dance doesn’t have to signal the end, The Refuge is the perfect place for an after hours game plan.

Virtual Tour of our Wedding Venue

Our preferred Vendors

Photography and Videography for events:   

High Tech:  (516) 967-6522  photography and videography for events

Simon Elliot:  (516) 586-6822 x301 photography and videography

John Warren Wright:  (718) 224-0777 photography and videography for events

Flower centerpieces and Lounge décor for events: 

United Floral (516)829-8890

Music and Entertainment for events:

GEO Events: (800) 670-0462
Entertainment, DJ, MC, Dancers, Lounge décor, Party, and event décor/ Audio visual.

Tommy Tunes: (631) 732-5886 ext. 125

Furniture rentals and Lighting for events

E. Maury Productions: (631) 796-7792
Entertainment, DJ, MC, Dancers, Lounge décor, Party, and event décor/ Audio visual

Rhythm Artz-(516)-426-7551
Entertainment, DJ, MC, Dancers, Audio visual, Lighting

Richie Hart Entertainment: (516) 802-3655
DJ, MC, Dancers, Lounge décor, Party, and event décor/ Audio visual, Lighting

Invitations for events

Plan A Party Mare: (718) 541-0804

Balloons / Décor for events:

Plan A Party Mare: (718) 541-0804
Balloon Décor, Feather centerpieces, Floral Centerpieces, Organic Balloon Arches, Balloon walls. Candle Lighting decor

Lighter Than Air : (516)933-3210
Bar/ Bat Mitzvah Décor, Sweet 16 décor. Complete event décor full-service candle lighting décor, Balloons.

Custom cakes for events:

The Cake DON-516-414-0625

The Sweet Peace: (516) 596 -2253

Sweet Karma: (516) 794-4478

Jack of All Cakes

Photo Booth Rentals for events

321 Photo booths- 646-296-4758

Linen rentals:

Table wraps -516-334-883

Custom event linen, charger plate rentals, Custom utensil rentals, napkin rings.