Weddings at The Refuge

The Perfect Destination for a Wedding on Long Island

With numerous intimate spaces to host parties, The Refuge is unique that it can transform into any style for each event.

Engagement Party

Congratulations Your Engagement! Kick off the wedding celebration with a one of a kind venue! Get the festivities started on the right foot, we invite you to take a personal tour with our event professionals so you can choose your event space and customize menus.


Plan a beautiful day for the bride to be by hosting an intimate and celebratory brunch. Our versitile rooms can be the perfect backdrop that is classical, romantic, elegant, modern, or chic. Our Main Dining room offers a bright and colorful aethestic with menu options such as bloody mary and mimosa bar, omlette station, french toast and pancakes, assorted hotfoods and so much more to choose from. 

Rehearsal Dinner

Set the stage for your big day with an equally stunning rehearsal dinner. From a sit down dinner to a cocktail reception, there are endless amounts of ways to impress your guests before the wedding. Our event professionals can help you plan your menu and cocktails to simplify the evening. Opting for a menu that differs from your reception is a great idea for mixing it up and Refuge’s menus have a great variety of cuisine’s to choose from.  


Wedding Ceremony 

Your ceremony sets the tone for the rest of your big day. Its your chance to wow your guests with the unexpected and give a hint at what’s to follow

Wedding Reception 

Think about your wedding style, your guest list size, and the general mood you want to set. The Refuge is the perfect place for a rustic, large or small, romantic wedding venue

After Party


Any bride will tell you the reception flies by. The last dance doesn’t have to signal the end, The Refuge is the perfect place for an after hours game plan.

Virtual Tour of our Wedding Venue

Our preferred Vendors


United Floral (516)829-8890 Flower center pieces and Lounge décor for Events


Music / Entertainment

GEO Events: (800) 670-0462 Entertainment, DJ, MC, Dancers, Lounge décor, Party, and event décor/ Audio visual, Furniture rentals

Maury Productions: (631) 796-7792 Entertainment, DJ, MC, Dancers, Lounge décor, Party, and event décor/ Audio visual, Furniture rentals, and Lighting 

Dj Don Q-516-857-3064

Genesis Events- 516-233-2337 , DJ, MC, Dancers, Lounge décor, Party, and event décor/ Audio visual, Lighting 

Tommy Tunes- 631-732-5856 DJ, MC, Audio visual, Lighting 


Backdrop Décor/Party Rentals

SJB EVENTS- 516-853-9695 Custom Back drop Walls with balloon arch, Rentals Furniture rentals

Geo Events- 516-802-3655

Maury Productions: (631) 796-7792

Genesis Events 516-233-2337



Plan A Party Mare: (718) 541-0804

Balloons / Décor:

Dial A balloon -718-225-5666

Plan A Party Mare: (718) 541-0804 Balloon Décor, Feather centerpieces, Floral Center pieces, Organic Balloon Arches, Balloon walls. Candle Lighting decor

Lighter Than Air : (516)933-321 Bar/ Bat Mitzvah Décor, Sweet 16 décor. Complete event décor full-service candle lighting décor, Balloons Entertain ment (lighting and furniture rental)

GEO Events: (800) 670-0462

Maury Productions: (631) 796-7792


Specialty Cakes: Custom cakes for events 

The Cake DON-516-414-0625

The Sweet Peace (516) 596 -2253

Tiny Tastes 516-724-6320


Linen rentals

Table wraps -516-334-883 Custom event linen, charger plate rentals, Custom utensil rentals, napkin rings.