Weddings at The Refuge
The Perfect Destination for a Wedding on Long Island
With numerous intimate spaces to host parties, The Refuge is unique that it can transform into any style for each event.
Engagement Party
Congratulations Your Engagement! Kick off the wedding celebration with a one of a kind venue! Get the festivities started on the right foot, we invite you to take a personal tour with our event professionals so you can choose your event space and customize menus.


BRIDAL SHOWER
Plan a beautiful day for the bride to be by hosting an intimate and celebratory brunch. Our versitile rooms can be the perfect backdrop that is classical, romantic, elegant, modern, or chic. Our Main Dining room offers a bright and colorful aethestic with menu options such as bloody mary and mimosa bar, omlette station, french toast and pancakes, assorted hotfoods and so much more to choose from.
Rehearsal Dinner
Set the stage for your big day with an equally stunning rehearsal dinner. From a sit down dinner to a cocktail reception, there are endless amounts of ways to impress your guests before the wedding. Our event professionals can help you plan your menu and cocktails to simplify the evening. Opting for a menu that differs from your reception is a great idea for mixing it up and Refuge’s menus have a great variety of cuisine’s to choose from.


Wedding Ceremony
Your ceremony sets the tone for the rest of your big day. Its your chance to wow your guests with the unexpected and give a hint at what’s to follow
Wedding Reception
Think about your wedding style, your guest list size, and the general mood you want to set. The Refuge is the perfect place for a rustic, large or small, romantic wedding venue


After Party
Any bride will tell you the reception flies by. The last dance doesn’t have to signal the end, The Refuge is the perfect place for an after hours game plan.
Virtual Tour of our Wedding Venue
Our preferred Vendors
Floral
United Floral (516)829-8890 Flower center pieces and Lounge décor for Events
Music / Entertainment
GEO Events: (800) 670-0462 Entertainment, DJ, MC, Dancers, Lounge décor, Party, and event décor/ Audio visual, Furniture rentals
Maury Productions: (631) 796-7792 Entertainment, DJ, MC, Dancers, Lounge décor, Party, and event décor/ Audio visual, Furniture rentals, and Lighting
Dj Don Q-516-857-3064
Genesis Events- 516-233-2337 , DJ, MC, Dancers, Lounge décor, Party, and event décor/ Audio visual, Lighting
Tommy Tunes- 631-732-5856 DJ, MC, Audio visual, Lighting
Backdrop Décor/Party Rentals
SJB EVENTS- 516-853-9695 Custom Back drop Walls with balloon arch, Rentals Furniture rentals
Geo Events- 516-802-3655
Maury Productions: (631) 796-7792
Genesis Events 516-233-2337
Invitations
Plan A Party Mare: (718) 541-0804
Balloons / Décor:
Dial A balloon -718-225-5666
Plan A Party Mare: (718) 541-0804 Balloon Décor, Feather centerpieces, Floral Center pieces, Organic Balloon Arches, Balloon walls. Candle Lighting decor
Lighter Than Air : (516)933-321 Bar/ Bat Mitzvah Décor, Sweet 16 décor. Complete event décor full-service candle lighting décor, Balloons Entertain ment (lighting and furniture rental)
GEO Events: (800) 670-0462
Maury Productions: (631) 796-7792
Specialty Cakes: Custom cakes for events
The Cake DON-516-414-0625
The Sweet Peace (516) 596 -2253
Tiny Tastes 516-724-6320
Linen rentals
Table wraps -516-334-883 Custom event linen, charger plate rentals, Custom utensil rentals, napkin rings.