WEDDINGS

Long Island’s Ultimate Wedding Venue

Host an unforgettable wedding celebration at The Refuge, Long Island’s top wedding venue. Our versatile spaces can transform to match any style, ensuring your special day reflects your unique vision. Whether you’re planning an intimate ceremony or a grand reception, our team is dedicated to crafting an experience that exceeds your expectations. From engagement parties and bridal showers to rehearsal dinners and the wedding day itself, we offer comprehensive services to make every moment memorable. Our culinary offerings blend Latin and Italian flavors, providing a diverse menu that delights every palate. Paired with our curated selection of beverages, including signature cocktails, your guests will enjoy an elevated dining experience. Located in Melville, New York, The Refuge combines modern elegance with exceptional service, setting the standard for weddings on Long Island.

Say ‘Yes’ to the Perfect Engagement Party

Your engagement is a milestone worth celebrating, and The Refuge offers the perfect setting to toast to your future. Gather friends and family in an inviting space where exceptional food, handcrafted cocktails, and stylish ambiance come together for a truly special event. Whether you prefer a lively cocktail party or a formal sit-down dinner, our event specialists will help design a personalized experience that sets the tone for the wedding journey ahead.

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Bridal Showers with Style & Sophistication

A bridal shower is more than just an event—it’s a cherished moment to honor the bride-to-be with love, laughter, and indulgence. At The Refuge, we create a refined yet relaxed atmosphere where guests can sip mimosas, enjoy gourmet brunch selections, and celebrate in style. Whether you opt for an intimate garden-style gathering or an extravagant themed affair, our team ensures that every detail, from custom menus to elegant décor, makes the day as special as the bride herself.

Rehearsal Dinners: The Perfect Prelude to ‘I Do’

The night before your wedding is an opportunity to bring together your closest family and friends for a heartfelt gathering filled with anticipation and excitement. Our rehearsal dinner options range from sophisticated multi-course meals to casual yet elegant cocktail receptions, allowing you to set the perfect tone for your big day. With a thoughtfully curated menu and a warm, intimate atmosphere, The Refuge ensures your last evening before “I do” is as memorable as the wedding itself.

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Tie the Knot in a Stunning Ceremony

Picture the moment you walk down the aisle—soft lighting, beautifully arranged florals, and the people you love witnessing your love story unfold. At The Refuge, we offer an elegant and versatile ceremony space that can be customized to reflect your personal style. Whether you dream of a classic, romantic setting or a modern, chic aesthetic, our team will help bring your vision to life. Let your vows be exchanged in a breathtaking atmosphere that makes your first moments as a married couple truly unforgettable.

Unforgettable Wedding Receptions

After the vows have been spoken, it’s time to celebrate! The Refuge offers a wedding reception experience that is both sophisticated and lively, with an impeccable culinary selection and beautifully designed spaces that set the stage for an unforgettable evening. Our talented chefs craft exquisite dishes that blend Italian and Latin flavors, while our expert mixologists create signature cocktails that reflect your unique style. Whether you envision an intimate dinner or a high-energy dance floor, we’ll help you create a reception that leaves a lasting impression.

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Keep the Party Going: After-Party Magic

Your wedding day passes in the blink of an eye, but that doesn’t mean the celebration has to end when the reception does. The Refuge offers the perfect setting for an exciting after-party where you and your guests can continue making memories. Enjoy late-night bites, handcrafted cocktails, and a lively atmosphere where music and laughter keep the night alive. Whether you want a relaxed lounge vibe or a DJ-fueled dance floor, we’ll ensure your after-party is just as spectacular as the main event.

Step Inside: A Virtual Tour of The Refuge

Can’t wait to see what The Refuge has to offer? Take a virtual tour and explore our beautifully designed spaces from the comfort of your home. Walk through our versatile event rooms, picture yourself at the head of the table in our elegant dining area, and envision how we can bring your dream wedding to life. Whether you’re drawn to our stylish cocktail lounge, our spacious reception hall, or our warm and inviting outdoor patio, you’ll see why The Refuge is one of Long Island’s most sought-after wedding venues.